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How to Cope in the First Week After a Loss

How to Cope

The first few days after a loved one passes are often the hardest. You may feel shock, numbness, or exhaustion. Here’s how to cope — practically and emotionally.

1. Give Yourself Permission to Pause

You don’t have to figure everything out immediately. It’s okay to take things one hour at a time.

2. Accept Help

Let others bring meals, make calls, or help with logistics. You don’t have to carry the burden alone.

3. Make Simple Plans

Start with basics:

4. Let Yourself Feel

There’s no right emotion. Cry, scream, sit in silence — whatever comes up is valid.

5. Avoid Big Decisions

If possible, postpone major financial or life decisions until your mind is clearer.


Grief in the first week is raw. You’re not expected to be strong — only to breathe, rest, and be kind to yourself.

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